A foreign service family lifestyle comes with many challenges — isolation, invisibility, identity shifts — that can become invitations.
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Once upon a time, I lived in Kakhovka, a beautiful cozy green town in the south of Ukraine. One of those small, once-upon-a-time places where everyone on the street knows exactly who you are – who is your mother, who…
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My full name is Hilda Denize Pinto Samo Gudo Johannsen. Yes, you might want to think twice before asking me to spell it all out! I’m Brazilian, my husband is German, and we have lived in Mozambique, Moldova, Indonesia, and now India.
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Book ClubCareer TransitionsExpat ExperiencesTrailing Kids
Before Becoming Goan: A Trailing-Spouse Story (Part 4)
Michelle spent 18 years as a trailing spouse in three countries before moving back to India — where her adjustment adventures continued, after all.
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If summertime happens to be when you feel a yearning for some new reading material, here’s a trio of options for trailing and towing spouses alike.
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Career TransitionsExpat ExperiencesTrailing Kids
Before Becoming Goan: A Trailing-Spouse Story (Part 2)
After a decade of expat life in Dubai, my husband was transferred to Thailand. Our family welcomed the opportunity to learn about a new culture — both modern and with a long, rich history.
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Before writing ‘Becoming Goan,’ I became an expat, following my husband from India to Dubai on the first of several corporate relocations over 18 years.
Before Becoming Goan: A Trailing-Spouse Story (Part 5)
After accompanying her husband across two continents, Michelle found herself taking an early retirement in Goa — her home. Or was it?
Before Becoming Goan: A Trailing-Spouse Story (Part 3)
After five years in Bangkok, including the last two as a split household while my husband worked in London and our son finished high school, our family reunited in (cold, wet, gray) London.
For anyone who has spent decades as an expat trailing spouse, seeing your children leave the nest and your husband become a stay-at-home retiree is a major change of life, dynamics and pace.
