After reflecting on seven years of stories, we are calibrating The Gupte Scale to a 10-point system: three points maximum each for Destination, Timing, and Resources — and an additional point for “Outlook.” How would you score your experience?
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Book ClubBucket ListingExpat ExperiencesTrailing Kids
Summer Reading: ‘Kept: An American Househusband in Cambodia’
In Part 3 of his adventures as a U.S. Foreign Service husband, Gregory Buford encounters gun-toting thugs, teen angst, and men behaving badly.
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Career TransitionsCoachingExpat Experiences
Silencing the Whisper: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome as a Trailing Spouse
by Rona Jobeby Rona JobeA foreign service family lifestyle comes with many challenges — isolation, invisibility, identity shifts — that can become invitations.
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My full name is Hilda Denize Pinto Samo Gudo Johannsen. Yes, you might want to think twice before asking me to spell it all out! I’m Brazilian, my husband is German, and we have lived in Mozambique, Moldova, Indonesia, and now India.
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Before Becoming Goan: A Trailing-Spouse Story (Part 5)
After accompanying her husband across two continents, Michelle found herself taking an early retirement in Goa — her home. Or was it?
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If summertime happens to be when you feel a yearning for some new reading material, here’s a trio of options for trailing and towing spouses alike.
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Book ClubCareer TransitionsExpat ExperiencesTrailing Kids
Before Becoming Goan: A Trailing-Spouse Story (Part 3)
After five years in Bangkok, including the last two as a split household while my husband worked in London and our son finished high school, our family reunited in (cold, wet, gray) London.
Once upon a time, I lived in Kakhovka, a beautiful cozy green town in the south of Ukraine. One of those small, once-upon-a-time places where everyone on the street knows exactly who you are – who is your mother, who…
Before Becoming Goan: A Trailing-Spouse Story (Part 4)
Michelle spent 18 years as a trailing spouse in three countries before moving back to India — where her adjustment adventures continued, after all.
Before Becoming Goan: A Trailing-Spouse Story (Part 2)
After a decade of expat life in Dubai, my husband was transferred to Thailand. Our family welcomed the opportunity to learn about a new culture — both modern and with a long, rich history.
