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    • Our Philosophy
    • Contributors
    • Contact Us
  • Topics
    • Bucket Listing
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    • Expat Experiences
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    • Trailing Kids
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A Ukrainian Girl Finds Her Fairy Tale

Once upon a time, I lived in Kakhovka, a beautiful cozy green town in the south of Ukraine. One of those small, once-upon-a-time places where everyone on the street knows exactly who you are – who is your mother, who…

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Playing the Cards You’re Dealt

My full name is Hilda Denize Pinto Samo Gudo Johannsen. Yes, you might want to think twice before asking me to spell it all out! I’m Brazilian, my husband is German, and we have lived in Mozambique, Moldova, Indonesia, and now India. 

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Empty Nest at Home, Full Lives Ahead

For anyone who has spent decades as an expat trailing spouse, seeing your children leave the nest and your husband become a stay-at-home retiree is a major change of life, dynamics and pace.

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Bending, Not Breaking, in Malaysia

My new novel tells the story of the interweaving lives of a British expat woman and her Filipina maid in Malaysia. It’s ultimately a tale of love, belonging and discovery — loosely based on my own experiences as a trailing spouse.

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From Flailing Spouse to Badass Abroad

In 2008, I had an ideal life. I was working part-time for a chemical company as a supply chain implementation lead, and I was a part-time stay at home mom in the suburbs of Richmond, Virginia. It felt like I…

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Cross-Country Culture Shocks and Confidence Gains

For my ninth move as a Navy wife, I traded in Seattle’s jeans-and-tattoos vibe for the power suits, prestige, and politics of Washington, D.C.

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My Long and Winding Road

My unpredictable life’s journey, complete with stumbles and rocky patches, has held me in good stead as an expat spouse.

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Stranger in Many Strange Lands

My journey as a trailing spouse began with my wife’s job offer with the U.N. High Commissioner for Refugees in Ukraine. Six years later, we were fleeing for our lives.

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Unexpected Yet Inevitable: My Colorful Life in India

From Paris to London to Delhi, “Mademoiselle Prune” offers a fashion-forward spin on trailing spouse life.

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Turning Trailing Life into Thrilling Material

The inspiration for Chris Pavone’s 2012 bestselling debut novel, The Expats, came from following his wife’s job to Luxembourg. Four novels later, he shares his own story with our readers.

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    Bending, Stretching & Erasing the World’s Borders

    by Alexandra Panic November 2, 2019
    by Alexandra Panic

    Responding to a call for adventure, I came to Seattle without firm plans — then surpassed all my expectations.

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    Trailing Husband: Navigating A New Role

    by Elliott Asbury October 27, 2019
    by Elliott Asbury

    What’s the secret to being a good trailing husband? Good question.

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    Introducing the Gupte Scale

    by Nicole Neroulias Gupte October 24, 2019
    by Nicole Neroulias Gupte

    As you begin your journey as a trailing spouse, it’s useful to consider where you fall on the Gupte Scale: Destination + Timing + Resources.

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    What’s a Trailing Spouse?

    by Nicole Neroulias Gupte October 19, 2019
    by Nicole Neroulias Gupte

    Some people despise the term “trailing spouse.” But I think it’s perfect.

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Nicole Neroulias Gupte

Fourth-generation trailing spouse whose partner's career has prompted three cross-country moves and one across-the-world move... so far!

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