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    • Our Philosophy
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A Ukrainian Girl Finds Her Fairy Tale

Once upon a time, I lived in Kakhovka, a beautiful cozy green town in the south of Ukraine. One of those small, once-upon-a-time places where everyone on the street knows exactly who you are – who is your mother, who…

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Playing the Cards You’re Dealt

My full name is Hilda Denize Pinto Samo Gudo Johannsen. Yes, you might want to think twice before asking me to spell it all out! I’m Brazilian, my husband is German, and we have lived in Mozambique, Moldova, Indonesia, and now India. 

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Empty Nest at Home, Full Lives Ahead

For anyone who has spent decades as an expat trailing spouse, seeing your children leave the nest and your husband become a stay-at-home retiree is a major change of life, dynamics and pace.

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Bending, Not Breaking, in Malaysia

My new novel tells the story of the interweaving lives of a British expat woman and her Filipina maid in Malaysia. It’s ultimately a tale of love, belonging and discovery — loosely based on my own experiences as a trailing spouse.

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From Flailing Spouse to Badass Abroad

In 2008, I had an ideal life. I was working part-time for a chemical company as a supply chain implementation lead, and I was a part-time stay at home mom in the suburbs of Richmond, Virginia. It felt like I…

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Cross-Country Culture Shocks and Confidence Gains

For my ninth move as a Navy wife, I traded in Seattle’s jeans-and-tattoos vibe for the power suits, prestige, and politics of Washington, D.C.

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My Long and Winding Road

My unpredictable life’s journey, complete with stumbles and rocky patches, has held me in good stead as an expat spouse.

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Stranger in Many Strange Lands

My journey as a trailing spouse began with my wife’s job offer with the U.N. High Commissioner for Refugees in Ukraine. Six years later, we were fleeing for our lives.

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Unexpected Yet Inevitable: My Colorful Life in India

From Paris to London to Delhi, “Mademoiselle Prune” offers a fashion-forward spin on trailing spouse life.

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Turning Trailing Life into Thrilling Material

The inspiration for Chris Pavone’s 2012 bestselling debut novel, The Expats, came from following his wife’s job to Luxembourg. Four novels later, he shares his own story with our readers.

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    Far From Home — And Each Other

    by Florence Reisch February 27, 2024
    by Florence Reisch

    One of my biggest expat challenges was our long-distance “split family” life. For 8 years, my husband spent weekdays working in South Asia, and weekends with us in Dubai.

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    Bending, Not Breaking, in Malaysia

    by Alexandra Carey February 13, 2024
    by Alexandra Carey

    My new novel tells the story of the interweaving lives of a British expat woman and her Filipina maid in Malaysia. It’s ultimately a tale of love, belonging and discovery — loosely based on my own experiences as a trailing spouse.

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    From Expat Wife to Happy Life

    by Florence Reisch January 22, 2024
    by Florence Reisch

    I was a young Swiss woman, living a beautiful love story with my boyfriend. One evening, he took me to dinner and told me he’d been offered a job in West Africa…

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    An ‘American Househusband’ Shares His Story

    by Gregory E. Buford October 9, 2023
    by Gregory E. Buford

    I went to India a corporate warrior and ended up a stay-at-home dad — which turned out to be my true dream job — and author of three books.

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    From anxiety to Aloha

    by Erica Klinger September 7, 2023
    by Erica Klinger

    After six years in Washington, D.C., my tenth move as a Navy wife brought us to the tropical paradise of Oahu in Hawaii. This turned out to be one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

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    Summer Reading Recs for Towing and Trailing Spouses

    by Nicole Neroulias Gupte June 14, 2023
    by Nicole Neroulias Gupte

    If summertime happens to be when you feel a yearning for some new reading material, here’s a mix of options for trailing and towing spouses alike.

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    From Flailing Spouse to Badass Abroad

    by Claire Hauxwell May 17, 2023
    by Claire Hauxwell

    In 2008, I had an ideal life. I was working part-time for a chemical company as a supply chain implementation lead, and I was a part-time stay at home mom in the suburbs of Richmond, Virginia. It felt like I…

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    Cross-Country Culture Shocks and Confidence Gains

    by Erica Klinger April 26, 2023
    by Erica Klinger

    For my ninth move as a Navy wife, I traded in Seattle’s jeans-and-tattoos vibe for the power suits, prestige, and politics of Washington, D.C.

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    Yesterday’s Gone; Tomorrow Will Be Here

    by Kristin Duncombe March 9, 2023
    by Kristin Duncombe

    Since Fleetwood Mac’s Christine McVie died in November, I’ve been listening to “As Long As You Follow” on repeat, remembering how I once joked that it was the perfect song for the career expat.

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    Shifting Lanes for a Change of Pace

    by Kirsty Larmour February 6, 2023
    by Kirsty Larmour

    After almost 10 years in the Middle East, we decided on one more big adventure before settling down so that our daughters could finish school in person. But, as with so many things during COVID, things didn’t quite work out as planned…

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Nicole Neroulias Gupte

Fourth-generation trailing spouse whose partner's career has prompted three cross-country moves and one across-the-world move... so far!

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